Showing posts with label life lately. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life lately. Show all posts

Monday, June 16, 2014

Life Lately: Camping

This past weekend, I was lucky enough to get out of town for a few days and go camping with a couple of girlfriends. I've been having a difficult time balancing my life now that I'm working a full-time job and a part-time internship, so it was good to refresh myself and be one with nature. Or something. We drove west to Maplewood State Park and camped for a couple of nights, canoeing, roasting marshmallows for s'mores, drinking whiskey, and telling scary stories centered around Christopher Walken (because he killed Natalie Wood, duh). I came home reeking of camp fire, swollen with mosquito bites, and full of joyful energy from my friends. What would life be if not for friends - and camping along Minnesota's lakes?











Saturday, June 7, 2014

Little Girl Captures a Mouse

My parents' house is old. My great-grandfather built the house in 1916, one of the first on the street. His siblings erected 3 or 4 other houses on the street as well, the entire family living within a stone's throw of each other. All of these houses still stand, and one - my house - still has direct kin living in it. This all being said, the house isn't in terrific shape. He's sturdy, he's well-insulated, but, inevitably, we still get a few mice sneaking in every year. The other night I heard Little Girl crash into some dishes in the kitchen. Worrying that she had hurt herself, I rushed into the dining room (where she had run), to find her with a little grey mouse hanging from her mouth. She flung the mouse up in the air and chased it across the dining room floor. I screamed and screamed until my father ran in with a big glass jar and captured the little mouse. Little Girl was named a hero and spent the next few days getting constant praise and attention (as if she doesn't get that already). After this incident, everyone seemed to forget about the time my cat Gogo killed a mouse just by looking at it. Though, to be honest, I'm not sure which cat gets more style points for their mousing.







Friday, May 9, 2014

Life Lately: Cat Edition

It's been on my list to feature a life lately post for some time now. I felt like I had quite a lot of random photos piling up, but when I went to have a look-through, I discovered that I actually only have a load of photos of my cats. And so, here we have life lately: cat edition.



I have three cats: Peter, Gogo, & Little Girl. I'm quite allergic to them, especially Peter, and I don't think I've actually been able to breath clearly for several years now. Eye drops are a daily routine, and I always keep tissues near me. I used to be put off about it, not considering myself a cat person, but that's all changed in the past year. I grew up with cats - when I was born, I believe we had Smokey, Cinder, & Peaches. I used to get into a lot of trouble when I was younger, and more than once my mum caught me with the scissors trying to cut my cats' ears and whiskers off! I also used to dress them in my onesies when she was out of the room. I terrorized those poor cats. After those three passed on (they were quite old when I was quite young), my dad brought home Pumpkin, an orange tabby with only one eye (his other was clawed out in a fight). I named him Pumpkin because it was nearing Halloween when we got him and he had an imprint on his side that looked like a pumpkin, at least in the eyes of a three year old. Pumpkin went senile as he got older and one night I was on the phone to a boy I was dating and I said to him, "This cat is going to die any day now." I got out of the shower that night and my parents had rushed off to put Pumpkin down after he'd had a stroke.

After Pumpkin, we were left with just Peter - a cat that I had gotten for my 9th birthday in lieu of a parakeet. Born with only a nub for a tail, Pete Pete is the most neurotic cat in the world, mostly due to post-traumatic stress from an abusive home before he came to us. The vet speculates his jaw had been broken, along with other limbs (I'm not actually sure if he was born without a tail, or if it had been cut off in this abusive home). Even after having Pete for 11 years, he sill flinches every time you walk into the room, and if you make a motion to pet him, he howls and runs away. But in the mornings, he'll be sweet and come into bed with me and rub his nose all over my face (which isn't so sweet when you consider my allergies, but it's the thought that counts). One night I fell asleep with my face pressed into Peter, and when I woke up the next morning my eyes were bright red, completely blood shot, and feeling mighty toasty (a term I came up with to describe how my eyes feel from allergies - like they've been yanked out of my head and are toasting in the oven). I went into work with my eyes flaming and twitchy, keeping my head down and hoping no one thought I was on drugs.



After my pup Moses died last March, my father was extremely depressed. He moped about in a bad mood, talking endlessly about how angry he was that Moses was gone, and what he could have done to have saved him (nothing). My mother and I were at our wits end on how to make him feel better, so we sat down and talked about getting him a cat. He was always more of a cat person than a dog one, anyways, and Pumpkin had been him best friend until he died. I was steadfast against another cat in the house due to my allergies, but I obliged. And so in came Gogo, a clumsy, dopey 17 pound cat with a high-pitched girly meow. I hated Gogo at first - he had the ability to open doors and would come into my room at 6am to wake me up on my days off. I had picked him up when we first got him, mistaking his meow as a pathetic cry for help. He shredded my rib cage (not to mention my brand new shirt). Hated that cat - hated him!



One day last summer, I was leaving the house when a fat little grey cat came running up to me, screaming this hoarse throaty cry. I was alarmed and tried to get away, worrying that the cat had rabies or something (her eyes looked crazed and she was all sunburnt). Then she came up and rubbed her little body all over my ankles and purred up a storm. She came back the next week, and started to live in my yard. I'd have dinner on the back deck and she'd jump up and eat the food off my plate. I'd go inside and she'd sit at the back door and wait for someone to come back out. I'd get in late at night, and she'd be sitting on the back deck waiting for me to cuddle before bed. You could pick her up and she'd cuddle right into your arms and cry when you tried to put her down. The next week, she was living in the house, a third cat. As it turns out, her crazed eyes are just a part of her (I call them Bette Davis eyes, as there's a definite resemblance) and her little meow sounds like she's been smoking for 40 years. Whenever she's being naughty (which is usually), I threaten to make a coat out of her shiny soft fur. Being my first female cat, and quite a tiny thing, I named her Little Girl.



Little Girl is a princess. She beats up on the boy cats - Gogo is quite pathetic, as he always falls on his back and lays there completely vulnerable without front claws - and she still eats the food off my plate when I'm not looking. But, Gogo has become my baby. He's a big softy who loves head butting me and getting endless ear rubs even when he doesn't deserve them. He follows me around everywhere and relies on me to protect him from getting too bloodied up my Little Girl. Only a year ago, I would have told you that I hate cats. Now I'll just say that I love my cats.

As Pete doesn't come around much (read: EVER), I only have photos of Little Girl & Gogo but darn, that's enough! I had a difficult time cutting any out as they're all so cute.












Monday, March 24, 2014

Life Lately

I don't have a whole lot in my life right now. I wait anxiously for the two days a week when I get to work my part-time job. I spend most of my days at home looking for a full-time job (and finding nothing). I've been lucky enough to catch up with old friends lately - I've gone for numerous coffee dates and have spent a lot of time reminiscing about high school and middle school with these old pals who I haven't seen in years. It's made me extremely grateful that I've met so many wonderful people in my short life - and that for whatever reason, they still want to be my friend. But let's get straight to what I've mostly been doing lately: wallowing. I continue to have an extremely difficult time understanding why my friend is treating me like they are. I was never taught that it's okay to throw people out - that people are disposable objects that you can just trash whenever they become inconvenient to you. This is not an attitude that I was taught. My parents always encouraged me to sort out issues with people who are giving me trouble, and my mother recently complimented me on how closely I tend to my friendships. I guess for that reason, it's really hurting me that I cannot mend things with this friend - the only friend who I currently have any type of grudge with. I spent the past month trying to preserve some type of happy memory to attach to this person, but in the end I'm only left with extreme hurt. At least I have a cat who understands me. And 7 seasons worth of Gilmore Girls episodes to binge on. I just finished painting a cheap bookcase with cheap paint, and I think it's time to break out the water colours again to paint some of the scapes I've been dreaming up in this dreary winter weather.









Monday, March 3, 2014

Life Lately: Arizona

I spent a few days down in Scottsdale, Arizona visiting my sister and her boyfriend, who moved down there so her boyfriend could play golf professionally. It was nice to escape the Minnesota cold for a few days (when I got back on Thursday, it was a "feels like" temp of -35°F, making it over a 100 degree difference from AZ to MN - yikes!). My sister and I aren't particularly close, but this little trip was full of bonding time over eating burgers at In N Out, watching House Hunters, and meandering Old Town. Scottsdale is a weird little town as it's in the middle of a desert and they pump in a lot of their resources (read: water), making it uncomfortably non-sustainable and with this weird dystopic feeling as if it could just collapse in upon itself at any moment. My photos probably make it seem more beautiful than it really is, though the Desert Botanical Garden was indeed beautiful, the sunsets were tremendous, hiking Echo Trail of Camelback was unlike hiking in Minnesota, and I thoroughly enjoyed looking at all the expensive cars - Teslas, old Chevrolet sport cars, and Jaguars from the '80s. It's not going to become my favourite place anytime soon, but family is there (and my cat niece Willa) and it's a nice little escape from everything happening here in MN. I'll be going back down in the Fall and I'm actually already looking forward to it a bit - though that might just be this endless winter that MN is facing!